Bad sex

[Nandragon]

Yes! you know it's a sex thread, cause it has my name on it...

Buffy brought up a subject that I've always had problems with:

Originally posted by Buffy

I freely admit when sex is a dud, maybe thats just something you kinda have to do when you're actually having it... how else can you improve ?

But do you Freely admit it's bad to the other participant? Esp. when it's them that's not up to par?

And how do you tell someone that they suck when it comes to sex?

I never could, I don't want to blow their ego or their self confidence. Sometimes I try to help them along...but...fark that. If it doesn't get better after the 2nd or 3rd try, nothing may help and I just move along.

I know most all guys (not Utop) say that they've NEVEr had bad sex.

I can't say that:(

And how would you take being told it wasn't good?

[pleed]

If the sex is bad, how do you blame it on the other person? I Think that's a bit up yourself.
In my experience, bad sex is when you and your sex slut (or partner) are just plain unco for your bodies to 'talk' to each other, either because you are drunk, tired or you are trying new things.

[King_Crud]

I've had bad sex a few times, either because of me or the other person, or both. It happens. You just get back on and keep trying.

As for telling someone they're a dud root, it depends on the relationship. There's been chicks i've been with who i could tell, and other i couldn't. Having discussions about what you like and don't like is a good start, but at the end of the day there will always be people who are shit in bed, no matter how much advice and experience they get.

[Salted_Chipmunk]

"Bad sex is better than a good day at work."

[rosamund]

Whether it's bad sex or good sex (IMHO), I usually apologise to the other concerned party afterwards.

You know, Just as a precautionary measure...

[BtrFly]

Originally posted by rosamund
Whether it's bad sex or good sex (IMHO), I usually apologise to the other concerned party afterwards.

You know, Just as a precautionary measure...

lol i have never seen the need to apologise... normally i find the bloke is pretty satisfied... :banana: and normally i tend to be also.... :D maybe i just choose the right people.... hehe

[doogle]

For some reason, when I have sex for the first time with a partner who turns out to be relationship material, it is bad... well, awkward to say the least. Sometimes I think its the Alcohol or the warped perception I have at the time, but when that isnt a factor, I think its the over anticipation , which creates clumsyness

Maybe I'm just a dud root!!!

Curse my over analytical self.

[DodgyAmnesiac]

some people just fuck well together :D

[Goat Boy]

I had really bad sex last night.
I can only blame myself.
I was alone.

[rosamund]

Hey, no-one's quoted this forum yet by going:

bad sex

Yes please, Nan!

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So I thought I might as well be the first...

[Al]

Ok, I've never had 'bad' sex. I've had very average sex, although at the time I thought that's how sex was... I even told my new gf that I wasn't that into sex.

Now I've found that there's a massive difference in what a girl can do. I'd give some pointers if someone was a bad root, but I believe that some people just suck at it and aren't going to improve.

If someone told me I was a dud root then I'd do everything I could to improve. Although I never believed it before, now that I'm with my current gf I think that there is someone out there that is your sexual match.

My 2c

[doogle]

Do you believe that men with small dicks need to work and perform better than men with LARGE ones?

[Al]

Originally posted by doogle
Do you believe that men with small dicks need to work and perform better than men with LARGE ones?

As my mate says, "Size doesn't matter, but you can do more tricks".

[sperm]

Bad Sex ! now go sit in the corner !!


Anyways, you need bad sex so that you always have a comparison scale, besides your best fap will never top your worst sex.

[rosamund]

I don't consider masturbation to be a lower form of sex, it's just... something else.

It's a personal thing (for most people, sickos!), where as sex is a team sport. ;)

[SamBo]

Originally posted by BtrFly
lol i have never seen the need to apologise... normally i find the bloke is pretty satisfied... :banana: and normally i tend to be also.... :D maybe i just choose the right people.... hehe

w00t, well, I guess I am doing my job then :D
Well I am Mr (W)right!! tee hee hee :banana:

[Cassa]

I've only ever been with two people in my life....my ex was fucking terrible (no pun intended) but since I had nothing to compare it to, I was very disheartened to think that that was as good as it was ever going to be.


I know better now ;)

[still life]

now I know why sunday usually start with cat that got the cream expression cassa :P

[Cassa]

I'll give you cream, right in the ear

[Studdza]

Sex is like pizza. All pizza is good, but some pizza is great. Just be happy you're getting a taste.

[SamBo]

Originally posted by Cassa
I've only ever been with two people in my life....my ex was fucking terrible (no pun intended) but since I had nothing to compare it to, I was very disheartened to think that that was as good as it was ever going to be.


I know better now ;)

I so know what you mean :)

I used to think I was a bad lay. I mean, I blamed myself for the sometimes bad sex with my ex.... but I look at what I do now, and I don't see myself doing anything majorly different and the sex is great :D
Makes me wanna dance... :banana:
hehehe :D

[utopian]

I've never had bad sex, I've just never had good sex either. If my partner's doing something wrong, or if it doesn't feel good, I'll let her know. If my partner is doing it the right way, I'll let her know by filling her mouth.
http://members.optusnet.com.au/utopienne/canufeelit.gif

[Whiskers]

I would let him know. And I have done in the past. Comments such as 'Are you going to last long enough this time so that I get to come too?' usually suffice. Fortunately I've never had problems with someone I actually have feelings for, which makes sense.....

[kré]

i've had bad sex.

it was :cool:

[Nandragon]

Wiskers...BBBbbbbbahahahahahhaha!
Been there DONE that!

The "fit" must be right in order for the great sex to happen.
Tricks...:p ....they can be might fun. But if no fit, no great fun.