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[Nandragon]

:swear: :swear: :swear: :swear: :swear:

My friend.

My drunk, short, sawed off, bitch, of a friend.

I showed Geggle her picture.
I told her I showed him her picture.
She got pissed and hung up on me. 7 days later she called to have a drink. She did not sound like a happy camper. My horoscope said that a good friend would try and pick a fight with me...so I didn't return her phone call till the next morning. No answer. That next afternoon, I stopped to chat, cold sholder.

Now mutual "acquaintances" have told me that I plastered her (fully clothed) picture "all over the internet".

Saturday, she picks up a friend across the street from me. They are going swimming. She knows I ALWAYS want to go. They don't speak, or wave. This pisses me off to the point I say FUCK YOU. My daughter is crying "mom, can't we go, why isn't she talking to US?" Fuck her.

Last night I found out, mutual friends threw a party and I was DELIBERATELY not invited. A pool party. ALL the KIDS were invited, mine excluded. Now I say "Fuck you BITCH"

So, here's what I've been asking myself...should I post her fucking picture out of spite? Photochop the hell out of it so she IS naked!??? Bitch. She'd deserve it. AND her own website.

Well, I usually forgive and forget guys. But this is this bitch's 3rd strike. YEp, 3 time is always the charm. Needless to say that when I'm being fucked and not in a good way...I won't go back.

[iaidoka]

Old Chinese Saying;
Before planning revenge, dig two graves.

[nosedog]

Originally posted by Nandragon
...should I post her fucking picture out of spite?

I do believe, Nandragon, that we should turn to the First Noble Truth of Buddhism, 'The Existence of Impermanence', for the answer to your question:

"Be not attached to what you are experiencing, otherwise you will experience suffering. When you experience suffering know that it is a reaction to circumstance and it is not a permanent state. But if your friend is a total bitchslut, flood the internet with her image. "

[Nandragon]

I'm thinking the same thing Nosedog...but need convincing...

[nosedog]

You need convincing my child?
Then let us look to the Second Noble Truth of Buddhism, 'The Arising of Suffering':

"Craving sensory stimulation, craving existence, and craving non-existence give rise to the continuity of being, and with it its attendant suffering. POST THE FUCKING PICTURES NANDRAGON."

[utopian]

Shit, Nandragon. You didn't have to go and post her photo to www.rotten.com

[freakendeacon]

Submit it to Fark for a photoshop contest. or just post it here and we could do our own photoshop... i say fry the bitch and let her see what what "plastering her picture all over the internet is really about" having beef with you is one thing but she was being bitchy to your kid. no other reason needed FRY HER :FLAME:

[Asmodeus]

Originally posted by utopian
Shit, Nandragon. You didn't have to go and post her photo to www.rotten.com

i beleive you're thinking more along the lines of FOTM - NSFW (http://fotm.rotten.com/fotm/)

[druid]

Originally posted by Nandragon
My horoscope said that a good friend would try and pick a fight with me...so I didn't return her phone call till the next morning.

Maybe you should not take horoscopes so seriously the next time and try to clear up the matter instead of avoiding confrontation.

[Nandragon]

It was a message on my answering machine.
It was 10pm when I got it, so I let it slide.
I called her when she normally has been up and had coffee.
She didn't answer MY phone call, for she WAS at home.

Thanks for the rotten links, but You may or may not find her there.
REally!

So that's 2 for posting her pic and 2 against?

[FireHart]

Post the bloody pic.

- FireHart

[Nandragon]

She doesn't even know which one I did show to Gedge!

[scathing]

That photo doesn't need any more photoshopping......

I'd suggest you leave her alone, or otherwise the PETA is going to crack down on your ass.

[angel_b]

Did you tell her before or after you showed geggle her picture?

And *why* would you show geggle her picture? :eek:

[Nandragon]

I told her after.
She KNEW though that I was going to put them in my computer.
Don't let me snap that shot if you don't want ppl to see it!
Did I snatch the ONE picture she has of ME and pitch a hissy? NO.

This whole summer we "partied" she did her damnedest for me NOT to meet guys. Then she started acting jealous when I did. I had several ppl ask me one night if she was my lover. I laughed. But then I started to notice little things and our aquaintences asked the same question.

Her behavior was fine....till shelby came home and as she stated "ruined our fun".

I think she was mad that I was talking to a guy!
Fark her anyway.
Now that I've posted it for real there's no going back. And fair weather friends are NOT what I need.
Fark her.

[Jen]

Sounds to me like she was wanting more than a friend, and now she's jealous.

[Asmodeus]

Sorry nan, but I wouldn't even fuck her with pirate's dick.

[CMYK]

At least she's among her equals...

http://www.zgeek.com/albums/uploads/hippos.jpg

...physically and intellectually...

[geggle]

angel_b:
You might remember the pictures Nandragon posted before - that picture is in the same photo album. I don't think Nandragon even brought it to my attention actually.

Nandragon:
I dunno that I agree with using her picture as an object of ridicule in this thread. Sure, maybe she overreacted, but there are lots of people who don't like their picture being taken. In this case, I think I feel the same way as iaidoka.

[angel_b]

Originally posted by Nandragon
I told her after.
She KNEW though that I was going to put them in my computer.
Don't let me snap that shot if you don't want ppl to see it!


Nope. Sorry. That's just not on. Bad netiquette.

[deevil]

Originally posted by angel_b
Nope. Sorry. That's just not on. Bad netiquette.

I'd have to agree, private information, like a photo, address, even name, should always have the owner's permission before being posted or shown to anyone. The problem with "showing" someone something on the internet is that you are actually giving them a copy (unless you're using some sort of desktop sharing program...) That's why it becomes more of a privacy issue than if you were showing someone a picture from your photo album at home. You should probably say to your (former) friend that you didn't think it was a problem, and that you're sorry you caused her any embarrassment or feelings of losing personal security. You may not be friends after, but at least maybe your kids can play together and you won't need to shoot daggers at eachother everytime you see eachother.

[oracle]

I, for one, have avoided posting my picture anywhere on the internet for two reasons: Anonymity, and also to avoid becoming the next Photochopped image to make it's rounds on the intarweb.

I've always been a proponent of "two wrongs don't make a right." Everyone bitches about hypocrisy in this world, but then don't lead by example. How hippocritical of them. She got upset because you put a picture of her on the net. Then, because of how this made her react to you, you post a pic of her again, this time requesting people Photochop it... Hmm.

Nan, whether or not you or others think your friend may be over-reacting, she's entitled to her feelings. She's obviously very angered that you did it, but if you really care about her as a friend, you'd go over her house to apologise, and try to reconcile. Perhaps you should ask those who may have a picture of her to delete it out of respect to your friend. If they respect you as a friend, then they will comply with your wishes.

It's all about respect I tells ya!

[druid]

Originally posted by Nandragon
Don't let me snap that shot if you don't want ppl to see it!

This approach is particularly useful when dealing with the paparazzis.

If you want to remain friends you should take the pics down...if not for her sake but for the greater good.

[Nandragon]

You are right. 2 wrongs do not make a right.

I made several attempts to speak to her. She yabbered on to everyone that I had posted it "all over" the internet. I copied ALL of those pictures over to send to my family and friends. Whom, would have included her brother to print them out for her. Oh well.

Our friendship was over Saturday when they didn't acknowledge my presence. As I stated earlier, this IS NOT the first time she has tried to "ostrasize" me. She does this to EVERYONE she knows at some point. My turn seems to be every August/Sept. NOT anymore it's doesn't. So hearing later about S's Birthday party really topped it off.

So, she can go back to the ppl that show up at her house for beer, and food.

[oracle]

Well, then my question to you is, do you really want her back as a friends if she acts like this. I know you should accept people for who they are, but it doesn't mean to have to be around to witness it.

I should also mention that if the answer is "no" you don't want her back as a friend, my previous comments about respecting how she felt at your actions still stands. Even if you hate her, I personally would not agree with photochopping her picture.

Others here may disagree, and they're entitled to. I accept them as they are... but me, I'm all about respect.

I'm sorry to bring up the "R" word again, but I really think there's a distinct lack of it (an not I don't mean that bloddy Aretha Franklin song, either :D )

[Bostonmess]

Personally, I don't think it's wrong. It's just a picture of her, she's not naked (thank god :D) or anything. What is it we have to be ashamed of in a two dimensional image that we aren't in real three d? Do we hide in real life? why hide on the net?

Here's someone I don't see anymore (http://forums.zgeek.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=209581) after a particularly drunken night a few years ago. Hi Alex :)

[oracle]

I'm not saying it's wrong from the perspective that she wants to "hide"

Think of it like this... You wouldn't like it if a friend did something you weren't happy about, despite how petty it seemed to them.

Treat others, how you would like to be treated.

[Bostonmess]

No you're right, I wouldn't like it if a friend did something I wasn't happy about :D

I just don't see the particular problem of posting a pic on the net.

"Treat others as you would want to be treated" AKA "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" I totally agree with it. Do you think Nan would be upset if her friend posted a picture of her on the net? I know I wouldn't be, so that gives me the right to post pics of them on the net. Of course if they explicitly asked me not to, I wouldn't.

[oracle]

You seem to miss my point, and then turn around and contradict yourself by agreeing.

The "Do unto others" thing is not applicable to the action itself (ie. posting the pic.) It's more to do with not doing something that a friend had explicitly asked you not to do.Originally posted by Bostonmess
Of course if they explicitly asked me not to, I wouldn't.My point exactly... and this applies to anything despite how petty it may seem to you (as I've said before.)

[Bostonmess]

You're right, I did ;)

I don't try and piss my mates off. If I do something they don't want me to do, I'll try not to do it again. Initially posting a pic on the net wouldn't be something that I would think would piss anyone off, but if it did I wouldn't do it again....to that person at least. However, (heh heh) I might do if they'd pissed me off and we were no longer friends. I suppose I can be a bit of a petty fucker :D

I don't know, I don't really fall out with people, just lose touch.

[Nandragon]

Boston expressed exactly how I felt.


It's over, I'm done with it.
It normally takes alot to piss me off.
When I realize what a waste of time, effort and emotional well
being...then Adios Amigos

She's not my friend.
to quote another
Fair weather friends are just that.