peto
29-09-2003, 11:37 AM
That I seem to have the inate sense to pick the most unavaliable woman in the room/pub/bar/resturant/whatever.
Normally I seem to be able to pick out the only woman in the room who has a partner, and try to ask them out. Not intentionally of course.
Now this weekend I finally had the balls to ask this girl out after about 9 weeks of fretting, trying to be absolutely certain she didnt have a boy friend, and not only that she seemed interested in me too. Not every day this sort of thing happens.
I ask her out for a coffee which she greatfully accepts.
We eventually went to the pub and met up with 3 of her friends there.
Every thing is going along nicely until she pulls me aside and asks me why I asked her out and why I was interested in her. She seemed flattered at my response.
I jokingly stated I expected her to say 'no' when I asked her out and thats where it went down hill.
She said that she loved me very much and wanted to be a friend of mine, but couldnt go on with a relationship other than being friends because she was Gay.
One of the girls we met was her girl friend.
*shakes fist at the sky* Why me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
We still had a great night, and have planned to meet up at later stages, but this is the first time I've asked a homosexual female out. Needless to say I'm happy to have such a great friend as her, but can't help feeling a little disapointed.
I really wish I'd learn these things before it becomes painfull both physically (due to pissed off boyfriends or husbands) and emotionally for me. I try my hardest but these setbacks are really making me into a timid idiot whos almost afraid to talk to women ouside his very small circle of friends (most of which have now moved on to bigger and better things away from Wagga).
Normally I seem to be able to pick out the only woman in the room who has a partner, and try to ask them out. Not intentionally of course.
Now this weekend I finally had the balls to ask this girl out after about 9 weeks of fretting, trying to be absolutely certain she didnt have a boy friend, and not only that she seemed interested in me too. Not every day this sort of thing happens.
I ask her out for a coffee which she greatfully accepts.
We eventually went to the pub and met up with 3 of her friends there.
Every thing is going along nicely until she pulls me aside and asks me why I asked her out and why I was interested in her. She seemed flattered at my response.
I jokingly stated I expected her to say 'no' when I asked her out and thats where it went down hill.
She said that she loved me very much and wanted to be a friend of mine, but couldnt go on with a relationship other than being friends because she was Gay.
One of the girls we met was her girl friend.
*shakes fist at the sky* Why me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
We still had a great night, and have planned to meet up at later stages, but this is the first time I've asked a homosexual female out. Needless to say I'm happy to have such a great friend as her, but can't help feeling a little disapointed.
I really wish I'd learn these things before it becomes painfull both physically (due to pissed off boyfriends or husbands) and emotionally for me. I try my hardest but these setbacks are really making me into a timid idiot whos almost afraid to talk to women ouside his very small circle of friends (most of which have now moved on to bigger and better things away from Wagga).