right at this moment... [Archive]

BtrFly

01-09-2004, 10:57 AM

Right at this moment i am in need of a very big hug. Not just a friend hug, not a parental hug, but one of those hugs you get only from the opposite sex... you know the ones i mean...

So tell me, is there things (apart from sex) that you can only get from the opposite sex...

oh and a hug wont go astray :)

Kyle

01-09-2004, 11:07 AM

::hug:: hmmm....well there's a certain type of music that i'd want to sing to and be sung to from the opposite sex. There are movies that I'd only want to watch with the opposite sex (or else I'd get sad). The good thing about this is I'm sure you can find someone to give you a hug or whatever you want. Promise!

Afta Image

01-09-2004, 11:24 AM

Yes, but it depends on the person of the opposite sex.

Despite the old "mean are bastards" and "Women are bitches" bullshit. People are people, some cunts, some fantastic and a lot in between (a persons gender is not as big a part as it often is made up to be)....

Why do you need a hug???

Chocoholic

01-09-2004, 11:28 AM

Scary movies, I love mind fucking thrillers but I can’t watch them along, I need a boy present.

Necron

01-09-2004, 11:30 AM

Right at this moment i am in need of a very big hug. Not just a friend hug, not a parental hug, but one of those hugs you get only from the opposite sex... you know the ones i mean...

I know what you mean.

I love doing something special for your partner and just seeing how they react. Makes both people feel special and wanted. It's not the same feeling with anyone but the one you love.

*BIG-HUG*

Cassa

01-09-2004, 11:34 AM

All I wanted was a special cuddle! :D

I find there's a certain feeling of connection that you can only get from the opposite sex, with people you're close to. I can't really explain it..maybe I'm mental :p but it's something I do feel.

sperm

01-09-2004, 11:42 AM

hugs rocks !

just so long as they arent extended hugs and I start getting a chubby :embarased:

I find the opposite sex always feels better to open up to, its probably why all the zgeekers I regularly chat to with messenger programs are female :D

metalhed00

01-09-2004, 11:46 AM

I had one girl who said I gave good hugs and loved when I hugged her. She said it made her feel better every time she got one. She's the only girl I wished I still talked to.

BtrFly

01-09-2004, 11:56 AM

sperm

01-09-2004, 12:03 PM

because i do... it has just been that sort of week/mth/year... and it only seems to get worse...
well add me to the line giving out hugs, or at least I'll owe you one !

BtrFly

01-09-2004, 12:06 PM

spank you sperm ;)

SamBo

01-09-2004, 01:17 PM

Hugs are great
another thing that is great from the opposite sex, is when you make eye contact and straight away you can tell just how much they care about you...

Cassa

01-09-2004, 01:18 PM

Especially when they don't stab you in the eye right away

Zan

01-09-2004, 01:19 PM

Especially when they don't stab you in the eye right away

That's NOT normal?

I've been deceived!

Springer

01-09-2004, 01:23 PM

Yeah, hugs rock... its like sharing D&Ms with your partner... its not the same as when its with mates or parents or whatever. Just being able to sit with someone and chat for hours on end is great...

rin

01-09-2004, 01:26 PM

i agree - hugs are the best !! they make everything ok :)
i agree with Cassa in that there is a special connection you can feel with the opposite sex, particularly your partner. i guess that is a result of them loving you for who you are, and not wanting you any other way... u feel comfortable being yourself...

SamBo

01-09-2004, 01:31 PM

Especially when they don't stab you in the eye right away
Yeah!

although it's perfectly alright if the stabbing occurs five minutes later... :D

throb

01-09-2004, 01:52 PM

Hugs are good. Except for geek hugs. They're soaked in self loathing and sexual frustration. Never accept a hug from a geek. Unless they are happily married.

SamBo

01-09-2004, 01:58 PM

hey, I'm a geek and I've been told I give good hugs!

BtrFly

01-09-2004, 02:02 PM

hugs are good... now if i could find someone who gave them to me, who meant it. fuck these half hearted jobs, especially when you want comfort...

i am not looking for a fuck, i am looking for a hug... :(

spurr

01-09-2004, 04:14 PM

i am not looking for a fuck, i am looking for a hug... :(

"Ford, we just needed to be held!" (http://home7.swipnet.se/~w-72369/held.wav)

Scythe

01-09-2004, 10:12 PM

spank you sperm ;)

I just wanted to quote that. It's not a phrase you see too often.

I like to think i'm a pretty good hugger, but if you want to put me to the test, i'd be happy to volunteer. :)

t101

01-09-2004, 10:38 PM

Opposite sex? Opposite sex?! Damn, so that's what I've been doing wrong....

:D

Hugs rock like crazy, but there's things other than the sex of the hugger to take into account. Body size has something to do with it too. I've found when a comforting hug is needed its best to have someone big to hug. You don't want an errant bony bit to interrupt the comfort :)

Glompbot

02-09-2004, 12:12 AM

I find that what I miss most, from being single for 2 years... is companionship.
I can't get it from friends... I can only get it from someone I'm intimate with...
They've seen me naked and pull those faces during sex... there is just something about that which makes me feel comfortable in their presence...

I miss it a lot. To be able to sit there with someone... and just be happy in their presence. Even if they're playing a computer game and i'm just watching them.
Obviously this is all stuff I can't get from a female... because I don't swing that way

Also, when I had a male who was my best friend... he was there for me with the 'comfort hugs' because he knew that when i'm upset, there is nothing that will cheer me up as much as a hug...

I don't hug my female best friend... even when everyone is saying their goodbyes and we'll hug everyone else... we just don't hug.

*sigh*

Elf_Girl

02-09-2004, 08:18 PM

right now i want a hug from the opposite sex who DOES care for me...unlike someone at the moment :( (sorry im in one of those shitty "life sucks" moods due to someone being a dickhead to me)

timace

03-09-2004, 11:47 PM

Scary movies, I love mind fucking thrillers but I can’t watch them along, I need a boy present.

lol, otherwise you won't sleep for the night. how'd you survive?

tikdoph

04-09-2004, 12:40 AM

To be able to sit there with someone... and just be happy in their presence. Even if they're playing a computer game and i'm just watching them.LOL. My gf says exactly the same thing. :D

Glompbot

04-09-2004, 01:05 AM

I remember I watched him play ALL of GTA vice city...

hockypocky

04-09-2004, 02:15 AM

**REALLY BIG HUG**

I agree btrfly.. getting a hug from some one of the opposite sex is wonderful. It makes all the sadness and anger go away for a time.

I think it should be manditory for hugs every day... The world would be a better place!

Lioness

04-09-2004, 02:26 AM

hugs..there is nothing i like more than getting up and having a big comforting hug with my bf who is bigger "n" me and so it makes it all the more nice....i have hugged boys my height and it just doesnt feel the same :)

SOC

04-09-2004, 03:05 AM

hey, I'm a geek and I've been told I give good hugs!

Yes, you sure do. :D

Um ... I think I may have said too much ...

AntZ

04-09-2004, 03:07 AM

I definitely love a good hug/cuddle/snuggle etc.

On a side note, isnt it wierd how all us sappy bastards wind up on around the same times *grin*

tikdoph

04-09-2004, 05:18 AM

...i dont mind him cuddling, kissing...getting touchy feely every now and then...just a bit of love is enough:)
...the way he pulls your hair and slaps your ass as he rides you like a pony...all that touchy feely goodness inside:)

tikdoph

07-09-2004, 01:19 AM

you have no right to say so. You are not HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You mean I have no right to talk about you and your boyfriend playing 'Hide the Salami'? No right to talk about you and him playing 'Lickity Split' 'til your toes curl and you see stars? No right to talk about you and your boyfriend having a party in your panties?

I'll let you in on a little secret, slutcakes... under those clothes you're wearing right now...

YOU'RE NAKED!!!!!

Get over yourself, girl... this is 2004... not 1904.

Salted_Chipmunk

07-09-2004, 01:57 AM

I remember I watched him play ALL of GTA vice city...

Every last Secret Package????

Now THATS dedication!

Hugs all round!

Glompbot

07-09-2004, 02:09 AM

Yes, literally ALL.
he was that type, yanno?

druid

07-09-2004, 02:43 AM

So tell me, is there things (apart from sex) that you can only get from the opposite sex...

A foot massage.

http://gallery.zgeek.com/albums/uploads/20040119_legofilme_pulpfiction2_160.jpg

FireHart

07-09-2004, 02:51 AM

haha, gold :D

tikdoph

07-09-2004, 04:22 AM

A foot massage.

http://gallery.zgeek.com/albums/uploads/20040119_legofilme_pulpfiction2_160.jpg
LMFAO. Gold! :D :D :D

tikdoph

07-09-2004, 08:39 AM

......
......

sweeet

07-09-2004, 09:02 AM

So tell me, is there things (apart from sex) that you can only get from the opposite sex...

frustration. i get a lot of frustration from the opposite sex.

HAL

07-09-2004, 09:19 AM

Massages; Receiving a massage from a guy is just to gay.

Salted_Chipmunk

07-09-2004, 08:47 PM

Yes, literally ALL.
he was that type, yanno?

Indeed i do.

I could/do watch my significant other for hours on end. :)

Glompbot

07-09-2004, 09:19 PM

I think I still could... *nod*
if i found someone.

Salted_Chipmunk

07-09-2004, 09:36 PM

I think I still could... *nod*
if i found someone.

Im sure that wouldnt be hard.

Glompbot

07-09-2004, 09:41 PM

Its medium type hard.
The hard part is finding someone i actually am attracted to, have things in common with, don't think is 'creepy' (which is a category I lump most guys who I suspect like me into), is good in bed, doesn't mind that I'm a moody bitch... etc.

Salted_Chipmunk

07-09-2004, 10:19 PM

True, It is hard to find someone that you are attracted to and is interested in you at the same time whilst not being a freak nowadays.

I gave up actively looking, and it managed to find me.

Chin up soldier ;)

Glompbot

07-09-2004, 10:29 PM

Meh, i've got a situation that makes me happy for now.

landmachine

07-09-2004, 10:35 PM

Perhaps if you were to investigate the possibility of no longer being an angst-ridden teenager, you'd find all the solace you require. Or alternatively, try writing a poem that includes the word "miasma". Go on, do it, you'll feel a lot better.

Glompbot

07-09-2004, 10:49 PM

I *am* no longer an angst ridden teenager... Trust me, there is a vast improvement in my attitude compared to when I was an angst ridden teenager....

landmachine

07-09-2004, 10:55 PM

I *am* no longer an angst ridden teenager... Trust me, there is a vast improvement in my attitude compared to when I was an angst ridden teenager....

wasn't talking to you, it was in reference to the original poster. BtrRetard or whatever it was.

Scythe

08-09-2004, 10:13 PM

wasn't talking to you, it was in reference to the original poster. BtrRetard or whatever it was.

And why exactly was it you felt the need to unnecessarily insult someone who has done nothing to you?

landmachine

08-09-2004, 10:31 PM

And why exactly was it you felt the need to unnecessarily insult someone who has done nothing to you?

because she's unneccesarily whining like a spoilt child.

BlakPantSamurai

08-09-2004, 10:36 PM

And your unneccesarily being a fucktard because you believe you have the right to, when the fact is noone cares

Scythe

08-09-2004, 10:49 PM

because she's unneccesarily whining like a spoilt child.

That's an opinion, not a reason. Just because you seem to think that doesn't mean you need to insult her. I know this is a shocking notion, but you could just choose to not read the thread.

kré

08-09-2004, 11:03 PM

That's an opinion, not a reason. Just because you seem to think that doesn't mean you need to insult her. I know this is a shocking notion, but you could just choose to not read the thread.

i hate to say it, but i'm landmachine's side on this one. not necessarily with his opinion, but with his right to state it.

Scythe

08-09-2004, 11:12 PM

i hate to say it, but i'm landmachine's side on this one. not necessarily with his opinion, but with his right to state it.

I don't have a problem with his right to say it, I just think most people should have better things to with their time than insult someone who has done nothing to them, and isn't hurting anyone else. If he wants to be a dickhead, that's his right. I just wish he'd go and do it somewhere else.

Glompbot

08-09-2004, 11:16 PM

Guys, I don't think this is the forum for it.

kré

08-09-2004, 11:20 PM

I don't have a problem with his right to say it, I just think most people should have better things to with their time than insult someone who has done nothing to them, and isn't hurting anyone else. If he wants to be a dickhead, that's his right. I just wish he'd go and do it somewhere else.

ok well, he said it, and if you didn't have problem with his right to say it, you wouldn't really have replied to it. let's just move on.

Glompbot

08-09-2004, 11:26 PM

Right at this moment I'm feeling sick of arrogant fuckhead males who always insist on arguing with each other.

In every relationship I have been in, there has been my boyfriend, and one of my male friends who he had to hate... EVERY relationship.

Why can't guys just put aside their differences to make others lives easier?

Scythe

08-09-2004, 11:38 PM

ok well, he said it, and if you didn't have problem with his right to say it, you wouldn't really have replied to it. let's just move on.

I just have a problem with what he said, not his right to say it. But like you said, let's move on. :)

Right at this moment I'm feeling sick of arrogant fuckhead males who always insist on arguing with each other.

In every relationship I have been in, there has been my boyfriend, and one of my male friends who he had to hate... EVERY relationship.

Why can't guys just put aside their differences to make others lives easier?

It might be that the boyfriend sees that particulay guy friend as the most significant threat to his relationship with you, for whatever reason. But then, i'm not exactly a relationship expert, so I may be way off base.

kré

08-09-2004, 11:39 PM

Why can't guys just put aside their differences to make others lives easier?

why can't girls?

if you can tell me that i'll tell you why guys can't.

Glompbot

08-09-2004, 11:41 PM

I can, and I have in the past.
From what I can figure guys have this stupid 'pride' thing that doesn't allow them to back down from any situations... especially ones where they should just stop poking the beast.