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Girl.
01-10-2004, 12:41 AM
So many of the threads in this forum are about the negative bits of relationships -- breaking up, arguing, getting over past hurts and beginning to date again and the like, so I thought I'd introduce a happier topic :)
What's the nicest thing you've ever done for your partner? What's the nicest thing a partner has ever done for you?
Holding their hair and rubbing their back while they vomit copiously into the toilet, then cleaning the mess up afterwards.
thegame87
01-10-2004, 12:44 AM
My GF got sun stroke and nearly passed out, and i caught her and took her to the bathroom and gave her water, and Saved her :)
Pagey
01-10-2004, 12:46 AM
hmm, i thought you said shaved. I have a problem!
thegame87
01-10-2004, 12:49 AM
hmm, i thought you said shaved. I have a problem!
Would of been funny though
SmaSheD_CoW
01-10-2004, 12:50 AM
I broke up with her. She threatened to kill me. I left the State for a while.
I'm such a nice guy, I went interstate just to prevent her from going to jail for murder!
Aardvark
01-10-2004, 02:23 AM
I remembered a 6 month anniversery. Then she broke up with me anyway
Life's a bitch, then you marry one, I'm told
Cassa
01-10-2004, 02:29 AM
I stopped talking once. I thought that was pretty decent of me.
Bostonmess
01-10-2004, 03:14 AM
Instead of doing one big smelly fart, I let it out slowly over the course of a few minutes making up three smaller ones, so it wouldn't be so overpoweringly smelly all at once.
m0loch
01-10-2004, 04:09 AM
I warned her before I came in her mouth.
FritzTheCat
01-10-2004, 04:22 AM
apart from being there & being supportive, caring, loving in general etc ?
probably a few things.
*shrugs*, dont know, you'd have to ask her.
she understands me and puts up with my crap and not being able to see eachother for 5 days of the week. I'd say that's pretty nice.
metalhed00
01-10-2004, 07:23 AM
I used my boxers rather than her shirt for clean up. :D
beowulf437
01-10-2004, 07:38 AM
For my wife's birthday I bought her a 2.6 ghz AMD athlon computer with 1GB of ram, 120 GB hard drive, a Ge Force FX video card and CD R/W and DVD player. No I don't even touch it, I have two computers of my own.
I buy her flowers on payday if I go to the store by myself.
I like to shave her legs while she's taking a bath.
For Christmas last year all she wanted was a Jewelry box. I can't give her something like that empty. So after I bought it, I unboxed it and put a pair of diamond earings she had been wanting in the drawer. I boxed it back up and wrapped it and put it under the tree.
dwarfthrower
01-10-2004, 08:53 AM
I leave random notes stuck to household objects telling her how much I love and appreciate her etc. Works well because I'm up and out of the house well before she and the kids get up.
MaJeztik
01-10-2004, 09:50 AM
i was dumped for being too nice. nuff said.
SamBo
01-10-2004, 10:04 AM
I think the nicest thing a partner has done for me is when I was sleeping and had a nightmare... I woke up with a yelp and i kinda jumped abit. I then received a huge cuddle... no words were said, I just got a huge cuddle and it just made me feel so safe and loved.
I know it sounds like such a small thing, but it meant so much to me at the time, and it still does mean alot to me.
I like to write little love notes, and then slip them into my g/fs bag or wallet or coat pocket or whatever, so that one day later she will find it and get all surprised :D i'm so sneaky ;)
awwwww thats sweet sambo .. wanna marry me? hehe
ive had a few nice things done for me .. but im not sure what the nicest of all of them would be ..
on my 16th birthday i was really sad and the day before it i was on the phone to my best friend in qld having a whinge n stuff and on my birthday i got a huge bunch of roses from him since he couldnt be there to cheer me up he was hoping they would and im not a flower type person but that made me heaps happy :D
the nicest thing i've done :) hmmm.... spose you should ask my partner :D but i think just generally being supportive and letting them know how much they mean to me and how special they are.. how much i love them... lots of little things can show that...
but the nicest thing that's been done for me? yes, getting a small letter in my wallet :) was a lovely surprise... also getting red roses :D but generally, the fact that he can be himself...
Aardvark
01-10-2004, 10:56 AM
I had a girlfriend who used to do that. She'd turn up in the strangest of places at unexpected times. My door 3 in the morning, across the road from my work which was miles from her and I'm sure I never told her about, sitting in my bed reading peacefully when I was sure I'd locked the place tighter than a drum...
Ended up getting an AVO against her, but whenever a neighbourhood pet stops pestering me and turns up dead on my doorstep 3 days later, skinned and gutted, I think of her
Scythe
01-10-2004, 11:19 AM
The nicest thing I ever did for my partner was never meeting them in the first place, thus saving them from weeks/months of aggravation before they finally give up on me.
:p
Elf_Girl
01-10-2004, 11:26 AM
my boyfriend gave me a full body massage with this really nice coconut oil from fiji.. (no not absolute full body massage if you know what i mean) but yeah, it was so nice and relaxful..i owe him one back :) i have no idea what i have done to my boyfriend that is really nice..i'll let him decide :D
Pirate
01-10-2004, 11:42 AM
Im a bad boyfriend.. I think I've only been nice to Buffy once. And that was just to get into her pants.
On the other hand Buffy does the nicest things for me. She leaves me love notes so when I wake up in the morning I find them on my computer etc. She also gives me back scratches which is my ultimate happy time (apart from no pants time). Plus she doesn't call me a cunt that much anymore and rarely beats me.
geggle
01-10-2004, 11:47 AM
Hmmm... I sent flowers to her while she was back home in Spain last christmas... I'm not sure who enjoyed them more... her or her mum ;)
But that wasn't really selfless... it felt good to do that.
durus
01-10-2004, 11:49 AM
I am organising my exe's 1.5 million dollar business, managing it's finances and getting it's shit back on track. And i'm doing it for free.
other things, driving her, bringing her food, taking care of her when she's sick and many (many) massages.
As far as being a bf goes i'm a pretty nice guy, the only thing is if she takes me for granted it tends to end kinda quick. Looking forward to getting the business properly organised so i can give it back and say, "here you go, it's all organised and working, if it fucks up now it's your own fault and your own problem. have a nice day, i never want to see you again"
Sashasword
01-10-2004, 11:53 AM
Once, for a different Birthday present, I actually went into a church and got my boyfriend a big bottle of holy water. (I asked for help - I didn't nick it)
I usually hate going into churches. They make my skin crawl - don't know why, but I completely failed to burst into flame, and thus was able to give him the present.
He was really impressed and pleased. He still treasures it after all these years.
And it cost me nothing! (except for the bottle)
Mattryx
01-10-2004, 12:16 PM
I had a girlfriend who used to do that. She'd turn up in the strangest of places at unexpected times. My door 3 in the morning, across the road from my work which was miles from her and I'm sure I never told her about, sitting in my bed reading peacefully when I was sure I'd locked the place tighter than a drum...
Ended up getting an AVO against her, but whenever a neighbourhood pet stops pestering me and turns up dead on my doorstep 3 days later, skinned and gutted, I think of her
LOL!
I haven't had a relationship longer than a few weeks in quite a while....
I'm not a very relationshippy person.
Chrissy
01-10-2004, 06:21 PM
The nicest thing I have done for my husband on a purely material basis, is buy him an iPod for his birthday after months of telling him we couldn't afford for him to go and buy one.
Actually, I don't really know whether it was a selfless or selfish thing to do since we probably could have afforded for him to buy one, but I wanted to buy it for his Birthday and see the look on his face when he unwrapped it. That was a good feeling. :D
On a daily basis, I cook his dinner so it's on the table when he comes in from work, make his lunch before he goes to work, wash and iron his clothes, rarely ask for his help with the household chores etc.
The nicest thing he has ever done for me on a material basis is spend double what he had on an engagement ring he knew I loved (even though he didn't like it much at all) and just laugh and say 'ok' when I asked if I could buy a second wedding ring that I saw and fell in love with 3 days before our wedding when we had literally no money. He then gave me the first wedding ring for Christmas when he was supposed to take it back to the shop and get a refund because we were so skint. :D
On a daily basis, he makes me feel loved and secure, never complains when I spend too much money, trys to give me everything I have ever wanted, makes me endless cups of tea and does the food shopping because he knows I hate it.
I think, although the grand material gestures are fantastic and will never be forgotten, it's the boring stuff we do for each other every day that makes our relationship so strong.
MisterBishi
01-10-2004, 06:40 PM
She was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar when I met her. I picked her out, I shook her up, and turned her around. Turned her into someone new.
Now five years later on she's got the world at her feet, success has been so easy for her. But don't forget it's me who put her where she is now. And I can put her back down too.
Don't, don't you want me?
hazza
01-10-2004, 06:45 PM
two words
multiple orgasms
Girl.
01-10-2004, 07:58 PM
I'd have to say, my current boyfriend is absolutely wonderful when it comes to doing nice things -- last time he visited me, he managed to procure a hotel room with a huge spa, so after we spent a fantastic night out, we stumbled back to our hotel, poured a copious amount of bubble bath into the spa, and lounged around in it for half an hour. The next morning, he woke me up with a lengthy massage.
I'm a lucky girl :)
Buffy
01-10-2004, 08:00 PM
Im a bad boyfriend.. I think I've only been nice to Buffy once. And that was just to get into her pants.
On the other hand Buffy does the nicest things for me. She leaves me love notes so when I wake up in the morning I find them on my computer etc. She also gives me back scratches which is my ultimate happy time (apart from no pants time). Plus she doesn't call me a cunt that much anymore and rarely beats me.
hehe, not true, you make me laugh everyday, and buy me flowers and let me buy stuff and take care of me when I'm sore :D
I can forgive you being a cranky grandpa for that hehehe! *runs away*
Glompbot
01-10-2004, 10:31 PM
I have bad breakups, and that tends to overshadow the good things in the relationships. And a lot of the things take too long to explain why they were 'special' since they were quirky, personal things.
I think the nicest thing anyone has done for was when Cray drove by my house, came inside, gave me a hug, then left... All because I was really upset about arguments I was having with someone at the time.
If one boyfriend ever ended up doing it, he would have done a nice thing too... at the end of the relationship he said he always wanted to buy me flowers, but wanted there to not be a reason... but there always seemed to be a reason... so i never got the flowers.
It would have been nice though.... but this was the same ex that made me give him fuel money to drive me home... so I doubt it.
BUT. there were nice things, like hugs when you're upset... massages... sharing stuff... awww..
I had another ex who always got us hotel rooms... that was nice :D
repeat
01-10-2004, 10:59 PM
Ripping up non refundable airline and grand prix tickets so I can stay with her for the weekend because she was depressed and didn't want to be alone.
CharmedOne
01-10-2004, 11:46 PM
The nicest thing my Husband (Darkside) has done for me..
God there are soo many. He has been the driving force and my rock in my battle with my boss. He tells me everyday that we will win the battle and holds me when I just need to cry.. It was my birthday last week and before he flew to Melb for business he gave me a beautiful gold bangle.. Something that was totally unexpected and I haven't stopped smiling since.
He leaves me little notes all over the house and tells me he loves me every day..
I think the nicest thing I have done for him are the simple things.. We were sitting on the lounge once (just started dating) and he said his hands were cold. I took them and held them in my own to warm them up. Something no one had ever done for him before. He had never really been shown love like that. Simple and Pure. It blew him away that I would warm his hands.
I cook him his favourite meals all the time and even though I am highly allergic to seafood I cook it for him, or will take him out for Sushi.
The little things mean the most. Not how much something costs or what brand it is.But the thought that goes into it.
dilligaf
01-10-2004, 11:51 PM
Ripping up non refundable airline and grand prix tickets so I can stay with her for the weekend because she was depressed and didn't want to be alone.
You should have taken her to the Grand Prix!
repeat
02-10-2004, 12:12 AM
It would not be a very good idea to take a girlfriend to a noisy racetrack when she wants/needs some comforting and a shoulder to cry on. I have no regrets in not going to the race and would make the same choice again.
Partners are far more important than a car race.
minorproblem
02-10-2004, 12:17 AM
The cards that i get from my gf that have little love messages inside of them :)
throb
02-10-2004, 12:27 AM
I like to leave post-it notes around the house for the missus before heading off to work... i get up earlier than her and i'm out of the house and on the way to work before she gets up.
notes that say, 'wash the dishes!', 'scrub my skiddies off the back of the bowl!'
my hubby (RCC) cooks every second night and he is very good at it - a thousand thank yous
when i shave in the morning and get little nicks and scratches, i like to use the blood to write little sentences of love on the mirror.
it's not real love unless it's in blood.
a shame i don't have a girlfriend though.
timace
02-10-2004, 02:39 AM
hmmm, well i do intend buying my gf a new mobile as soon as i can afford it. yesterday was our anniversary. i gotta get her something :\
Aardvark
02-10-2004, 02:55 PM
Show her what you think of her
Get her a nutcracker
TheAwesome
02-10-2004, 03:13 PM
My longest official relationship was 2 days..... and the nicest thing I ever did was make out with her. It was soooooo good that she wouldnt leave me alone for over 6 months after I called it off!!!
But seriously, Im a very romantic person..... I just havnt found the person that deserves to be treated that good yet! :p
Disco Bear
02-10-2004, 05:54 PM
The nicest thing I do is when I do sleep around with other bitches I always think of my woman when I'm on the money shot.
I don't take things like committed relationships lightly.
LauraleeBug
02-10-2004, 06:23 PM
The little things I do for my husband (Android) are numerous. He has M.S. (Multiple Sclerosis) and can't walk.
So, I walk for him, cook for him, clean up for him, listen to him, plan with him, live with him, love with him.......... he doesn't ask me to, he's done it alone.... but I tell him why? when I am here for you? :) He's learning to ask, finally after 2 yrs!!!
He gives me unconditional love, a home, children (pets only), a reason for living, and the courage to be myself for the first time in my life.
He was the one I put up with all that other shit waiting for..... damn! I was lonely so long - now I feel whole....... I am a very happy & lucky girl.....
I LOVE YOU ANDROID!
Also - PS to Buffy & Pirate - You guys are SO cute! We both kinda started our relationships at the same time and glad to know you're still as happy as we are (with sense of humour intact LOL)!
my partner did something nice for me last night - was very supportive thru a scary incident... thank you! :D
diggy
07-10-2004, 03:28 PM
wrote and sang a song for her when she was going through a hard time
though we may not be together anymore, there are always memories i cherish
scathing
07-10-2004, 03:30 PM
What's the nicest thing you've ever done for your partner?
Left her.
Hellman
08-10-2004, 10:14 AM
Well the niciest things
Hmmm....hmm...I cant think of a single one i must ask my gf :P
sapience
08-10-2004, 10:21 AM
fucked her in the ass, then come in her eye, then make her lick my dick clean from all her shit.
thats the nicest thing we ever done together.
RASPUTIN
12-10-2004, 01:12 PM
Bah too many of them. Wifey let me buy a plasma screen and uber surround sound system. I get $1500 for upgrades a year and I get to drink lots of beer. She also feeds me roots me looks after all the crap I hate to do.
I umm umm do stuff and other things. I am sure I do stuff as she is still with me after 14yrs so I must be doing someting right.
AVataRR
12-10-2004, 01:25 PM
I don't know why I feel like I should share this, but I thought the thread said incest before I looked again. Although, I imagine that would've been a much more interesting than the corn we see here.
Aardvark
12-10-2004, 01:36 PM
The nicest thing he's done for woman kind, and for the whole human race, is lead a life of celibacy
frgn8r
12-10-2004, 01:48 PM
I held the first annual LRAD (Louise Rxxxxxs Appreciation Day)... I sent her an invite from the LRAD International Organising COmmitee and gave her a list of things she'd need for the day, including a few red herrings (not literal, but figurative ones)... I then took her horse-riding (she used to go as a girl, but hasn't been for years), I organised a champagne lunch by a river during the ride, I took her to dinner at her favourite restaurant and then I took her to see the Bar at the Beauna Vista Social CLub, even though I hate Latin music... and then I let her go to sleep (rather than poke her) becuase she was so exhausted from a great day... and she really deserved all that and much more... the nastiest thing I have ever done, (or will do) is marry her in 5 weeks... poor girl.
AVataRR
12-10-2004, 02:04 PM
The nicest thing he's done for woman kind, and for the whole human race, is lead a life of celibacy
:D :D :D: D: :D
LauraleeBug
15-10-2004, 12:50 PM
I held the first annual LRAD (Louise Rxxxxxs Appreciation Day)... I sent her an invite from the LRAD International Organising COmmitee and gave her a list of things she'd need for the day, including a few red herrings (not literal, but figurative ones)... I then took her horse-riding (she used to go as a girl, but hasn't been for years), I organised a champagne lunch by a river during the ride, I took her to dinner at her favourite restaurant and then I took her to see the Bar at the Beauna Vista Social CLub, even though I hate Latin music... and then I let her go to sleep (rather than poke her) becuase she was so exhausted from a great day... and she really deserved all that and much more... the nastiest thing I have ever done, (or will do) is marry her in 5 weeks... poor girl.
You are a big ole sweetie! Let me be the first (in case no one saw your post)
to offer my heartfelt ~ CONGRATULATIONS ~ on your upcoming nuptuals (<--oooh, sounds like a dirty word, don't it?)
I wish you & Mrs frgn a good long happy relationship, and someone to swing on the porch with when you're 64!
:banana: :banana: :banana:
Blessed Be,
Lauralee
NeXuS
14-12-2004, 03:58 PM
This isnt something that I have done for someone but someone special has done for me
At the moment I am going through a really stressful time both with Work and in my personal life. Moebs has been with me every step of the way. She has come up from Sydney to help out with things and support me the whole way when she could be in Sydney doing other less stressful things. She has done MANY MANY things including sticking her neck out depsite it may cause her trouble in the future for her and putting up with my up and down moods lately. I just dont know how to show my appreciation for everything she has done.
Thanks so much Meg. It really really means a lot to me. Thankyou sweety.
I know this doesnt even begin to be thanx enough but I just wanted everyone to know how wonderful she is.
Merudo
14-12-2004, 04:36 PM
group hug :D
KoinBahd
14-12-2004, 05:17 PM
I couldn't think of anything so I asked her myself. The first thing that came to mind was me helping her about the house and ferrying her about in my car when she broke her ankle. She's a super lady.
Hit And Rum
14-12-2004, 05:26 PM
Flew her to Sydney for a romantic b'day weekend
Another time I took her out to an expensive dinner at Burswood hotel. At the end of the night pretended to walk out then put her in a lift and took her up to a room I had hired. In the room I had cut out hearts in red cardboard on which I had written in gold and silver pen the reasons why I loved her and then stuck them around the room.
I had put presents on the bed wrapped up nicely and the room had a spa.
It was a great night and she was so overwhlemed she had tears in her eyes.
She is the best and so worth it.
Guest.
14-12-2004, 08:16 PM
Granting her a painless and simple divorce (I say granting as thats the official term, I dont want to come over as patronising(sp?)) Wasn't nice for me but its probably the last nice thing that I did for her. If your not going to be together any longer what is the point of being an arse about it?
Ah well..... *sigh
Bifrost
14-12-2004, 08:28 PM
I am a crap boyfriend. I don't do anything especially nice. I think I used to, but that was a long time ago and now I'm crap.
*goes off to rethink his life after reading how amazingly tops other people are to their respective partners*
Shootz
14-12-2004, 09:16 PM
Dated her.
Glompbot
14-12-2004, 09:57 PM
Considered spending almost $300 on a box set... because I knew they wanted it.
Stupid because they broke up with me, and I still wanted to do it for them.
timace
17-12-2004, 01:12 PM
Cared for her whilst she was sick and semi-conscious. She doesn't remember anything that happened. Pretty delusional and worrysome. I ended up being an hour late for work because of that. Had to make that sacrifice, because nobody else was there to look after her
I just looked through this and can't see a post from me. I think I was trying to save ppl from feeling ill from my mush but stuff it :D
I do many nice things for astro as he does for me. It's a very 2 way street relationship which is fantastic!
Let's see now, I iron his shirts/pants for him every morning, clean his clothes, make him dinner pretty much every night, take him out to nice places he's never been to, buy him clothes, give him massages and back scratches and I send him sweet SMSs/emails/PMs during the day. I shave him sometimes (on the face you dirty people) and the other day I gave him a foot massage. He said it was his first ever. I felt kinda special. :)
On the other hand, he drives me the bus stop everyday and sometimes all the way to work, he takes care of me when I'm sick, hugs me when I'm down, helps me clean up the house, picks me up from work and drives me home when he can, sends me sweet SMSs/emails too and generally makes me feel like the luckiest girl alive. He also has helped with my self-esteem a lot too which is great :) I feel a lot more confident and happy with who I am these days.
The nicest thing astro ever did for me though was existing b/c that in itself makes me happier than anything in the world. :)
astro
17-12-2004, 02:57 PM
Too true. That foot massage was awesome :D
I love looking after Imp. I pick her up whenever i can so i can spend more time with her - I work in an unpredictable job, and a lot of the time i have to work nights and weekends, so every second i get to spend with her is precious.
Best things she does for me? Gets me beer any time i want, watches all the same shows as me, is a great person to spend time with and is a fantastic cook. And for that, she gets anything she wants :D
Oh and he posts nice things like the above... what else can I say.. I told you he was nice to me :D
Colonel Kurtz
17-12-2004, 04:44 PM
I'm still waiting for girl to say 'swallow'
It's a very 2 way street relationship which is fantastic!
this is like SamBo and I... he looks after me, i look after him :D and we appreciate it so much... he does the smallest things (that he doesn't even realise he's doing) and it makes me feel like a princess.... and he genuinely wants to do these things, he doesn't feel as though he has to. it's the same for me - i just want to look after him as best as i can. he deserves it :D
Fuzzy Dice
17-12-2004, 05:17 PM
answer to thread title for this week:
five consecutive orgasms.
That Bloke
18-12-2004, 09:51 PM
Not a partner but someone I liked; I made a necklace of copper & pau shell,.......they were rather cold about the gift.
CharmedOne
24-12-2004, 01:59 AM
I have to add to this thread. It's been awhile since I have been online here at Zgeek and I want to thank Darkside (my husband) for taking care of me, supporting me and just giving me the strength every day to face all the little challenges I now deal with.
I suffered a stroke on October 25th.. It was down my right side and has affected my speech, which is still slurred and dissrupted, my movement, my strength and the saddest.. I have lost my hearing on my right side as a result. They say it is a complete loss and will never return. So a digital hearing aid is what they recommend.. $2500.00.. and that's the cheapest one..
I am now on a constant schedule of visits to specialists, Rehab, GP visits and having to now take daily meds to control blood pressure. :( The hardest things have been the way people treat you when you sound a little different. Im lucky that my stroke was in the lower part of the brain and affected only my motor skills and co-ordination. Not my intelligence. But now I contend daily with having to talk to people who sometimes hang up on the phone, or pretend im not in their shop, as they couldn't be bothered in actually listening to me talk. Im not that bad.. just my speech is a lot slower and im still having difficulty with a some of the words.. plus it's hard when you can't really hear that much.
But, Darkside has been there with me through all of it. If it wasn't for him coming home early (cause he was worried that day about me) I could be dead. He saved my life. He sits with me and just listens to me when I need to vent, or holds me when I need to cry.. as sometimes it's just all too much. When I was in the hospital I had my MP3 player with me.. and well it went missing from my room didn't it.. :( that hurt.. as it had all my fav songs on it.. that I would listen to with my good ear, when I was alone in my room all night and couldn't sleep.
When you've had 34 yrs of sounding and acting a certain way, it's hard to accept that this is how it now has to be! He takes me to as many GP visits as I need and makes sure I dont wear myself out trying to rush rehab.
He even argued with the doctors when they were trying to tell me what was happening to me ... the day I lost my hearing.. smart people.. he told them to write it down for me, as just raising their voices wasn't going to work.. I WAS DEAF! and not being able to hear meant that no matter how close you stand to me.. I still wouldn't hear you.. Bloody neurologists.
He helps me down the stairs of our house, he helps me clean the place and helps me cook. He does all this, plus sends me emails all day to tell me he loves me, calls to make sure im ok and still manages to come home and deal with 4 young kids.
Im only 34 and the stroke was a result of stress... stress from being off from my job as a marketing and Pr manager after I fell and snapped some ligaments in my knee at work.. my boss (the pig) put EXTREME pressure on me, as he's a bully and was used to people always bowing to him... and Darkside made sure I didn't.. so the pressure got worse.. even though Workcover had accepted it all and the pig's insurer had accepted liability.. he wasn't happy and just made my life a living hell since June. So now we have to wait and see if the insurer will also accept the stroke, or else I don't get the hearing aid..
So all I can say is that it doesn't matter how YOUNG you are... a stroke can happen to anyone.. at anytime. But be thankfull for the one's around you who love you..
So to Darkside, thank you from the bottom of my heart for loving me, fighting for me and just being there for me.
MisterBishi
24-12-2004, 02:08 AM
Darkside you quality motherfucker post here and claim your rep man.
repeat
24-12-2004, 02:16 AM
Sorry to hear that CharmedOne but it's good that you have DarkSide to be there for you.
Juice Biscuit
24-12-2004, 04:54 AM
Darkside you quality motherfucker post here and claim your rep man.
W0rd, no wait fuck it, I'll let him put his feet up, I'll go and have a look for one of his posts to rep.
badpauly
24-12-2004, 07:36 AM
So many of the threads in this forum are about the negative bits of relationships -- breaking up, arguing, getting over past hurts and beginning to date again and the like, so I thought I'd introduce a happier topic :)
What's the nicest thing you've ever done for your partner? What's the nicest thing a partner has ever done for you?
Let her spend time with her girlfriend :)
Reprobate
24-12-2004, 08:26 AM
Darkside you quality motherfucker post here and claim your rep man.
Quality Motherfucker? Now there's a reference I want to put on my resume. :D I'll be sure to credit it to Mr Bishi.
It came as quite a surprise to see my wife post here at zgeek. I only noticed because Pinger hunted me down like a beagel and repped me on a completely unrelated post.
it's unfortunate whats happened. but she's on the mend. her voice is about 90 to 95% back to normal. though when she's tired it's a little worse for wear.
but even when it was bad she could still type up a storm, well not physically to watch, but reading one of her emails when i was at work you'd never know the difference. the mind still works beautifully, it was just the vocal cords that weren't coming to the party.
but it's good to see her post back here at zgeek. of course she hadn't been here for a while, and then i noticed that she had been visiting but not posting. but now she's posting. and so i guess that means i have to fight her for the computer in the evenings. but i'll go easy on her, at least until she's made a 100% recovery.
dozer
24-12-2004, 08:29 AM
mad props to both of you, have a merry and close christmas
Juice Biscuit
24-12-2004, 09:09 AM
It came as quite a surprise to see my wife post here at zgeek. I only noticed because Pinger hunted me down like a beagel and repped me on a completely unrelated post.
It was the first post that came up on a search for your username, I linked back to CharmedOne's post, it wasn't like it was just a bit of casual random rep. ;)
CharmedOne
24-12-2004, 02:08 PM
To all those who have sent get well wishes, many thanks and a merry christmas to all.
darns
24-12-2004, 02:26 PM
If you guys really have problems getting that hearing aid, sound it out in Zgeek. I'm not sure about everyone else, but I would like to chip in and help.
and oh, Darkside is a hero. where are the awards?
LauraleeBug
24-12-2004, 08:33 PM
Right now I'd do *ANYTHING* for my loved one. If I could, I'd earn the money he needs; I don't care if I have to be a hooker or get beat up for it. I'm still strong enough to take it.
That's what I thought until I threw my back out a week ago. We both look like shit, although things are better today and he'll have a happy xmas no matter what...
I wished I had my Gramma back :( I feel this world overwhelms me sometimes.
throb
26-12-2004, 09:22 AM
I don't care if I have to be a hooker or get beat up for it.
Now that is some weird shit right there.
LauraleeBug
26-12-2004, 09:43 PM
Now that is some weird shit right there.
Weird to a Russian Assassin? That's rich...
At least (unlike other people) I was talking of a semi-hypothetical situation where I would not be just a piece of meat.
A one-time deal could get me bwtn $1-2k; which is all I need... I ain't talking "crack hoeing" ffs; I'm Bug - I'm valuable... :sheesh:
/me knocks to see if anyone's home
Maybe you never really loved anyone before.... now, that's weird. :fu:
CharmedOne
27-12-2004, 03:40 PM
Hope everyone had a great christmas, Boxing day and spent time with family, friends and loved ones.. Had some good food, good wine and got some good shit off Santa..
I was lucky enough to marry an amazing (but sometimes silly.. read on.. )guy who gave me a brilliant gift.. some music and dvd that aren't available here in OZ.. So thanks babe.. Although I have to have it fairly loud to really hear and watch it.. and it bugs him... as it's new country style.. hehehe
Darkside got the Starwars Trilogy box set, a delonghi cappucino machine, gb game, clothes, Dvd's.... and what was the fav...Something I didn't get him... Yep...
A present a friends kid sister got.. and he brought it over to show us... called "lightning reaction".... a silly game where you shock your opponents or yourself.. (yes darkside stuck the handles all over his body and thought it was hysterical).. he is ADDICTED to this thing..
So to The Awesome.. thanks for introducing Darkside to a game Im sure that was made by The Jackass gang..
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to All..
Bambi
27-12-2004, 03:59 PM
Among just being an absolute sweetie, my partner knowing that I used to Latin dance and I love ballroom as well, booked us in for ballroom dancing classes. Best christmas present ever. Shows he knows me and put thought into the present.
Feryl
27-12-2004, 04:28 PM
I think the nicest thing I ever did for my man was get up early on his birthday and drive over to his place (about a 25 minute drive, and he leaves for work at 6.45am) to surprise him and be the first one to give him pressies and wish him happy birthday. :) It did the trick - he was a very happy boy.
The nicest thing he's done for me is write me a song about us, which he sang for me, and played on his guitar, and he recorded it for me so I could hear it whenever I want, and wrote the lyrics out on purple paper (knowing purple is my favourite colour).
excalibur
27-12-2004, 05:02 PM
Nicest thing I ever did for my partner at the time was live on a 2 min noodle diet for a week, cause I bought her $200 worth of jewellery for her birthday.
Reprobate
29-12-2004, 10:49 PM
If you guys really have problems getting that hearing aid, sound it out in Zgeek. I'm not sure about everyone else, but I would like to chip in and help.
and oh, Darkside is a hero. where are the awards?
thanks darns.
though i wouldn't use zgeek as a platform in which to beg for money.
begging is not beneath me, just that it wouldn't be fair to Pirate.
though if anyone was to click and VIEW PROFILE for either me or CharmedOne and then click on HOME PAGE you'll eventually get to my website where i can, and am, begging, grovelling and panhandling to my hearts content. :D
-=[BB]=-
05-01-2005, 10:54 PM
Nicest thing I can remember doing is making her coffee at 5.30 in the morning when i dont have to get up till 9
zgeekfan
12-01-2005, 04:54 PM
I gave her an STD on valentines day. And she was like "you do that to all your first dates" I didnt reply but its true...
Hairyman
21-01-2005, 03:44 PM
When my partner go back from an overseas trip I chartered a helicopter to fly us to a nice restaurant in the Hunter Valley for lunch and a scenic flight on the way home.
hazza
22-01-2005, 01:17 AM
Kikikiki I Leike Let This One G/f Of Mine Cop A Faceful Of My Manjuice
Zomg
so far... given massage, showered with gifts, spoilt her as much as I can and next, making 100% sure I see her in the next few weeks!
Broken
30-01-2005, 07:32 AM
i got my Tongue pirced wow i didnt know girls like thats much until i got a cramp in my Tongue ;)
MisterBishi
30-01-2005, 07:41 AM
wtf is a tounge, man?
Hairyman
02-02-2005, 09:49 AM
It's how you speak after your tongue is pierced. :)
haiironezumi
03-02-2005, 12:57 PM
Not me but my brother. He surprised his girlfriend on her lunch break for her birthday, he brought a Barbeque into Parramatta city and cooked her a brilliant Barbeque lunch in the middle of the park. He'd arranged everything with her boss beforehand so she had the afternoon off. :D I thought this was brilliant, I think he was around 22 at the time, so I was 12.
Broken
03-02-2005, 01:00 PM
i remmeber when i was 12 i though all girls had cooties wow that was stupied but now that im older i know that the cooties are acually called crabs
lowededwookie
03-02-2005, 01:11 PM
Okay, technically this was not to my partner although we did go out a couple of times.
My friend got into a car crash whereby a dickhead in a bread truck t-boned her car after running a red light.
She got out the next day with nothing but cuts and bruises and some glass in her arm, and a bit of a dodgy back. Needless to say she was bloody lucky to get only that.
Anyway her car was a write off and so she had no way to get around without someone else. I have a motorcycle and a car and so I decided to give her my car and ride my bike. This way she could get around on her own and live her life like normal. Nothing worse for an independant person to have to rely on others.
Then May last year my bike broke after shooting the #3 piston into the valves. Any way she wanted to return the car and I told her to keep using it and that I would just get a train into work. It meant walking an hour to the train station and an hour back but it was worth it to know she was able to live life normally.
Unfortunately I have the car back now because my job role changed, otherwise she would still be using the car as we speak. :)
Elf_Girl
11-02-2005, 07:36 PM
this is the nicest thing my boy has done for me..well more suprising and sweet :) He told me he was going home, anyways I had Software class, after i got out he was waiting outside the classroom, he handed me a rose, and said how much he loves me.. that made me so happy and I still am :D
I can't think of anything i've done much for him though..sept maybe sneek little love notes into his diary.. :)
Aardvark
11-02-2005, 08:05 PM
Still can't think of anything really nice I've done. Several evil things that were much appreciated come to mind, but nothing really nice
Whiskers
11-02-2005, 08:08 PM
Swallowed his jizz.
Hairyman
11-02-2005, 08:18 PM
I don't know whether to blush or be jealous.
Broken
11-02-2005, 08:57 PM
Swallowed his jizz.
So your that kinda of girl.
Whiskers
11-02-2005, 09:39 PM
So your that kinda of girl.
YOU'RE powers of deduction are infallible.
Evil Dan
11-02-2005, 09:44 PM
YOU'RE powers of deduction are infallible.
He's an American.
dickhead
19-02-2005, 04:10 AM
hello
The nicest thing I have done for my partner is getting her best friend to shut the fuck up for about 10 minutes.
I got the bitch to suck my dick..
hows that.
wanderlust
18-03-2005, 09:58 PM
I'm a fucking good girlfriend. I don't 'do' token stuff, I am consitantly wonderful.
Scythe
18-03-2005, 11:19 PM
hello
The nicest thing I have done for my partner is getting her best friend to shut the fuck up for about 10 minutes.
I got the bitch to suck my dick..
hows that.
Who the hell goes to all the effort of joining the site just to post sad childish crap like this?
I mean, really, what's the point?
Sagacious
04-04-2005, 09:58 PM
I left her.
druid
04-04-2005, 10:34 PM
As of late the nicest thing I've done was probably the birthday present. In November I gave her plane tickets to Brussels around NYE and told we're going to spend some time there. This wasn't actually true.
We did fly to Brussels but took a car from the airport and drove to Calais (France) and took the Eurotunnel to England. The surprise was a bit hard to keep under wraps but in the end it was an all around success.
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