GIRLS *angry face*

[AsterisK]

Okay so I like this girl right. But she likes this other guy. This other guy is your typical rev head guy, probably gets all the girls all that crap.. He likes the girl too... They are not together...

The girl was fighting with the other guy, due to the fact he was hanging out with his ex gf, and he still loves her. That and they were in his car, alone... And the chick I like saw them together...

Anywho, so they were fighting... Tonight she was goin to see him to talk about it all... I sent her an SMS message to say good luck, and didn't expect much more from it. I wasn't gonna get my self down because she liked this other guy or anything...

Half an hour later I get an sms back. "Lol actually when I got ur msg we were havin a root."

*heart sinks to floor*

[s3raph]

Ouch, that sucks dude.

[polite]

Half an hour later I get an sms back. "Lol actually when I got ur msg we were havin a root."

*heart sinks to floor*

She sounds quite a catch.

[Androssi]

Big hugs there AsterisK....

[SamBo]

what a bitch. she actually thought that was funny? dude, don't waste your time with this one

[Hellgrf]

Oh thats harsh... does she know u like her??? cos if she does... that is just down right mean.

I know what u mean though... i have a friend like that... he gets all the girls, but so dosnt treat them rite... but they all keep goin 2 him... its just the way of woman

[imp]

She doesn't sound like she's very sensitive to your feelings at all. I'd say you're better off withuot her. I know it's not easy to see sometimes especially when you feel strongly towards someone but sometimes you just need to put yourself first and say "Fuck 'em" :)

Find someone who's more deserving of you. You sound like a good guy :) Her loss I say

[Marshall77]

Sorry dude but it sounds like she did not know you liked her. If she's not interested dont waste your time. it will make things harder in the long run.

I all i can say theres a lot of fish in the sea. if one gets away theres another around the corner that might be a better catch or at least a be a good fight when you reel her in.

[minorproblem]

Sounds like a bit of a bike.

[KrisEz]

BAD NEWS!
even if you do get with her, chances are you cant afford her drug habit and yours, youll probably get SOMETHING exotic, and it wont be her dancing, it will be your doctor delivering the news, and seriously, thats not even cool among friends of the same gender.
you dont wanna be with a girl who checks her sms' whilst doing the horizontal tango.

[kré]

can i get her number?

[Davo_Dinkum]

Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't respond the way you'd hoped, stab her boyfriend and burn his house down. *Preferably while he is bleeding to death on the bathroom floor*

[spurr]

Sounds like she considers you a friend (a good friend perhaps, but no more). You should have bit the bullet and let her know you were keen when she was single....he who hesitates, masturbates!

[Fuzzy Dice]

I am confused as to why you wished her good luck in talking to the other guy. Also, it definitely sounds like you, sir, are a Non-Threatening Male Friend. It's like being her gay pal, but with less penis in your bum.

[kré]

pics?

[The Cunt]

Sucks to be you. :fu:

[Arcane1]

Dude, you have to wonder two things:
A- How many others does she play
B- How much of a mean ignorant bitch is she.

Really, I think you know both answers. She sounds like more of a cunt than The Cunt.

[The Cunt]

Really, I think you know both answers. She sounds like more of a cunt than The Cunt.

Except that sending SMSes which say I've just had a 'root with a guy' has never been in my modus operandi.

[Sagacious]

I all i can say theres a lot of fish in the sea. if one gets away theres another around the corner that might be a better catch or at least a be a good fight when you reel her in.

Sounds like this chick is a Rex Hunt job. Even if you did land her then you'd kiss her and throw her back.

[Merudo]

I am confused as to why you wished her good luck in talking to the other guy. Also, it definitely sounds like you, sir, are a Non-Threatening Male Friend. It's like being her gay pal, but with less penis in your bum.
definitely my first thought too.


in her eyes you were never anything more than just a "friend"
and from the messages you sent her etc, it seemed you never conveyed anything except for you just wanting to be a friend


but like the others have said, is this the sort of person you wanna be with anyway?

[ShinymetalASS]

I don't think she has any idea that your feelings are more than just friendship... she sounds like she definitely considers you a friend and nothing more.

I dont think she's intentionally being a bitch though as it genuinely does not seem like she knows that she has to consider any feelings you might have for her.

If she does know though, she's an evil witch....

Otherwise, this sounds like one of those situations that you just chalk up to really bad fucking luck.....

:)

[locust]

She's speaking to you as a friend. If you've never told her that's not the level you're on, I hardly think she's done anything wrong.

[Scythe]

I think you need to blow off a little steam. My advice: go out, get mildly inebriated, and flirt with as many women as possible.

Other than that, there's not really a lot you can do. If she didn't realise you liked her and felt comfortable enough to send you an SMS about the fact she was having sex, you're firmly in the friend zone. Maybe if you stop being so friendly to her and start chasing other women she'll realise what she's missing.

[Blink]

I agree with Scythe, go chase someone else. Incidentally, why did you send her a txt saying "good luck"?

[Scythe]

I agree with Scythe, go chase someone else. Incidentally, why did you send her a txt saying "good luck"?

I can answer that. He was being what is known as a "nice guy", and supporting her while allowing her to make her own decisions in life. Which is part of the reason he was the friend while the meathead was the one she went after. I know this because I have done similar things in my life. Which probably explains why we are both single. :)

[frgn8r]

Half an hour later I get an sms back. "Lol actually when I got ur msg we were havin a root."

*heart sinks to floor*

Geez, I'd be thankful that she did something like that *before* you fessed up to her... sounds like a tart - you're better off without her

someone's looking after you - be thankful, learn and move on... it means you're one more girl closer to finding 'the one'.

[kré]

I agree with Scythe, go chase someone else. Incidentally, why did you send her a txt saying "good luck"?

word. even if she knew you had feeling for her, when you sent her this message maybe you gave her the impression that you were over her.

[scathing]

Half an hour later I get an sms back. "Lol actually when I got ur msg we were havin a root."
You've got Paris Hilton's phone number? :aah:

On a more serious note, as people have said having this unrequited love for this girl isn't going to do you any good. I'm sure she has redeeming factors, but if she'll shag a guy she was pissed off at for being with his ex then she's probably not the best girlfriend material.

If she doesn't know about how you feel then its kind of understandable that she told you, but still not particularly classy. If she does know, then your feelings aren't high on her list of priorities. Wishing her good luck is a bit too "nice guy" to put up with that kind of shit.

Either way, do what you have to in order to unhook your affection from her since she's clearly not right for you. If you just have to get her the fuck out of your life for a while to settle down, or just get smashed or crack on to some slut in a pub. I won't say there are more fish in the sea (that's one of the most inane and impersonal comments you can ever say to someone) but there are better catches than her.

[scathing]

Oh, and can you tell me the land where chicks dig revhead guys? I'd be swimming in da laydeez if I was living there.

Do you know if they're brand snobs, or will they like a guy that is really enthusiastic about Datsuns?

[BtrFly]

*hugs* you will find a better one out there. this one sounds like the town bike- only without the class of the chrome...

[Blink]

I can answer that. He was being what is known as a "nice guy", and supporting her while allowing her to make her own decisions in life. Which is part of the reason he was the friend while the meathead was the one she went after. I know this because I have done similar things in my life. Which probably explains why we are both single. :)

Ah yes, the nice guy routine. The quickest way to enter a girl's "will never root this person as they are a friend" zone. Otherwise known as the "support group I can bitch to about how my boyfriend doesn't treat me right" zone.

[RedMaN]

Nice guys will always finish last.... you should have learnt this by now.
I know this... I am living proof :spingo:

[Scythe]

Nice guys will always finish last.... you should have learnt this by now.
I know this... I am living proof :spingo:

"Finishing last" is a good thing for a guy, it's just that nice guys rarely get to be in the two-person race at all..... :D

[dwarfthrower]

/me offers up thanks for being a caveman alpha-male type.

[Merudo]

Nice guys will always finish last.... you should have learnt this by now.
I know this... I am living proof :spingo:



no... wrong... disagree

there's a difference between a nice guy and one who constantly supplicates, constantly does everything the girl wants and constantly acts like a servant rather than another half of a relationship


nice guys dont finish last, wusses who act so clingy that they appear like they think theyre never going to be in another relationship if this one fails do.

[dwarfthrower]

nice guys dont finish last, wusses who act so clingy that they appear like they think theyre never going to be in another relationship if this one fails do.

Everybody pay heed to the advice emanating from this man.

[RedMaN]

nice guys dont finish last, wusses who act so clingy that they appear like they think theyre never going to be in another relationship if this one fails do.
Hmmmmm, wise words indeed..
/me smacks oneself round the head. Get a grip!!

*takes advice and adds to growing list of knowledge*

[AsterisK]

I would like to thank all of you for your advice... I'm a bit of a youngen, so all your wise old folk offering support is just awesome :)

now to answer your questions:
Yes I did tell her I liked her before hand.
Cray her number is 040******* :)
Scathing - the land of Pine Rivers, in Brisbane.
Why did I say good luck? Yeah okay I guess I'm a nice guy... I'm not gonna tell her "hey i hope it all fucks up on you"... Yeah maybe I am wishing in the back of my head that did happen but all I wanted for her is to be happy...

So yer, time to get over it... She has the shits cuz I'm not talking to her now, but I think its best I don't, I might say something I regret...

[Merudo]

heh, she has the shits 'cause you're not talking to her?

Maybe this could turn around and have her chasing you...

oh and as for this
I'm a bit of a youngen, so all your wise old folk offering support is just awesome



I'm only 19 :p

[kré]

I would like to thank all of you for your advice... I'm a bit of a youngen, so all your wise old folk offering support is just awesome :)

now to answer your questions:
Yes I did tell her I liked her before hand.
Cray her number is 040******* :)
Scathing - the land of Pine Rivers, in Brisbane.
Why did I say good luck? Yeah okay I guess I'm a nice guy... I'm not gonna tell her "hey i hope it all fucks up on you"... Yeah maybe I am wishing in the back of my head that did happen but all I wanted for her is to be happy...

So yer, time to get over it... She has the shits cuz I'm not talking to her now, but I think its best I don't, I might say something I regret...

where's the pics? :mad:

[Chocoholic]

IShe has the shits cuz I'm not talking to her now, but I think its best I don't, I might say something I regret...
It’s the friends that forgive you for what you say in a rage that are worth their weight in gold!

[AsterisK]

Soz cray, dont have one on me at the moment... Merudo, i'm 19 too!!! Go the 19 club... Don't you just hate 18 year olds? Oh this chick is 18... Yes yes I hate them...

[AsterisK]

It’s the friends that forgive you for what you say in a rage that are worth their weight in gold!

so true... i guess i will still be her friend, but its gonna be fucking hard...

[BtrFly]

Why bother being her friend. She more than likely is going to use you again. You dont need this sort of person in your life. Seriously, drop friends who wouldnt help you, even if your life depended on it, cos seriously - some day you may need it, and they wont be there.

[fuzz!]

so true... i guess i will still be her friend, but its gonna be fucking hard...
good god why?

seriously.. let it go, move on, forget her..

i don't think you could do anything more self-destructive than continuing this role of 'friend'.

[AsterisK]

she messages me this morning saying she shouldnt have told me wat happened... and that she isnt different, and that she is all cuddly and snuggly and stuff... if she is, how come she just fucked this guy??? i tend to agree that maybe she is *edit* delete: a bit of */edit* a slut...

Oh and apparently it didnt do anything for her.... :fag:

[Serpent_Girl]

Just forget her....seriously, people like that aren't worth your time and affections.

[Sagacious]

she messages me this morning saying she shouldnt have told me wat happened... and that she isnt different, and that she is all cuddly and snuggly and stuff... if she is, how come she just fucked this guy??? i tend to agree that maybe she is *edit* delete: a bit of */edit* a slut...

Oh and apparently it didnt do anything for her.... :fag:
Move on forget about her and if she keeps SMSing you get a restraining order.

[fuzz!]

she messages me this morning saying she shouldnt have told me wat happened... and that she isnt different, and that she is all cuddly and snuggly and stuff... if she is, how come she just fucked this guy??? i tend to agree that maybe she is *edit* delete: a bit of */edit* a slut...

Oh and apparently it didnt do anything for her.... :fag:
hahaha..

am i right in thinking that this girl is quite attractive?.. hence her crazy behaviour and you not just forgeting the whole situation?..

[AsterisK]

fuzz, ur absolutely fucking correct... but still... then again she is blonde...

[King_Crud]

19? That's your problem, girls are a pain until they get past the 22ish age. Tell her how you feel, if you don't get anything out of it then leave her. Same thing happened to me when i was your age, the girl knew the situation and she was playing me like a puppet. I eventually went fuck it, and never saw her again. One of my best decisions

[AsterisK]

19? That's your problem, girls are a pain until they get past the 22ish age. Tell her how you feel, if you don't get anything out of it then leave her. Same thing happened to me when i was your age, the girl knew the situation and she was playing me like a puppet. I eventually went fuck it, and never saw her again. One of my best decisions

thats wat im doing... i havent talked to her, its giving her the shits... but hey... it feels good to have that control :D

[fuzz!]

fuzz, ur absolutely fucking correct... but still... then again she is blonde...
ahhh the allure of the crazy hot chick.. well at best you could headfuck her, have your dirty way with her and dump her with her panties 'round her ankles..

this wouldn't be something you could do though if you are a nice guy at heart, i don't think it's is a role you can easily fake.. so my advice is don't even try.. just forget the whole mess.. let some other guy abuse her

[AsterisK]

roflmao... as i am a nice guy, i cant even get with a girl and get a root unless i am emotionally attached sumhow... i just dont feel right about it otherwise...

[Blink]

she messages me this morning saying she shouldnt have told me wat happened... and that she isnt different, and that she is all cuddly and snuggly and stuff... if she is, how come she just fucked this guy??? i tend to agree that maybe she is *edit* delete: a bit of */edit* a slut...

Oh and apparently it didnt do anything for her.... :fag:

Try something interesting mate...
Just tell her that simple fact is that you like her, and you don't mind her being snuggly and cuddly, as long as it's after a marathon sex session (with you that is). I said something similar to a girl once, and the results were pretty good. Of course there's always the chance that she'll never speak to you again, but what have you got to lose? :)

[Sagacious]

roflmao... as i am a nice guy, i cant even get with a girl and get a root unless i am emotionally attached sumhow... i just dont feel right about it otherwise...
That is a situation that can be overcome relatively easily with the right combination of psychology and alcohol.

We have the technology

[Merudo]

those last six words of blink are the important ones


same applies for meeting new people

If youre out somewhere, and you're worried what the reply will be from someone you just go up to to talk to

What have you got to lose? you can either try or never find out what could have happened

[Jimma]

Yeah. Unless she's someone you work with directly, is a sister of a good friend, or someone you've known for years etc. then go fucking all out dude. Nothing to lose, everything to gain.

[Merudo]

just go up to her and say "i dont want relationship, i just want, bang bang bang"





shiggity shiggity shwa

[locust]

She knew? I take it back. At best, she's an insensitive clod.

[Jimma]

I don't want to know your name, I just want bang bang bang.

[Necron]

She is the town bike... The seat would smell worse than a monkeys arse. Get over her in whatever way you feel comfortable.
If she knew how you felt ans still did that, she sounds like a plain old Shazza.

[King_Crud]

roflmao... as i am a nice guy, i cant even get with a girl and get a root unless i am emotionally attached sumhow... i just dont feel right about it otherwise...
go backpacking, you'll learn about non emotional sex, with hot foreign chicks

[Sagacious]

go backpacking, you'll learn about non emotional sex, with hot foreign chicks
hehehe backpacking and packpackers...you knw what they say where there's a wall there's a way!

[rosamund]

AsterisK, don't beat yourself up, and don't let her hurt you again.

In the words of Malcolm Rivers, whores don't get second chances.

[pavilion]

she used the term LOL im a bit suss on any chixor who uses net jargon

[~vjay~]

lol

[gimpieman]

you really should've messaged her back saying:

"LOL, I KNOW! i stole your car while you were at it"

[AsterisK]

well she doesnt have a car :P her ex gave her a car for her 18th, then took it off her :P

[Pictures]

Okay so I like this girl right. But she likes this other guy. This other guy is your typical rev head guy, probably gets all the girls all that crap.. He likes the girl too... They are not together...

The girl was fighting with the other guy, due to the fact he was hanging out with his ex gf, and he still loves her. That and they were in his car, alone... And the chick I like saw them together...

Anywho, so they were fighting... Tonight she was goin to see him to talk about it all... I sent her an SMS message to say good luck, and didn't expect much more from it. I wasn't gonna get my self down because she liked this other guy or anything...

Half an hour later I get an sms back. "Lol actually when I got ur msg we were havin a root."

*heart sinks to floor*

LOL INTERNETS!!!!11 hahahaahhahahahaha

seriously though, she uses the phrase "root"? i would be thinking more of punching her in the cunt than slipping cock in to it. hahahah, that's still pretty ror, you failed it pretty hard (it is "rooting" that girl)

[AsterisK]

latest update: she just rang me and wanted to know if i wanted to go and get coffee with her and sum friends... im sick at the moment so that complimented my excuse not to.

[detractor]

Put your dick in her cunt ffs

[berserk]

you're 19, probably not horrible looking?
dump the 18yo town bike & score some 27-30+ year olds.

[Hellgrf]

roflmao... as i am a nice guy, i cant even get with a girl and get a root unless i am emotionally attached sumhow... i just dont feel right about it otherwise...
I know, its a curse aint it... I cant 'root' a girl till im emotionally involved. god dam morals

[-=[BB]=-]

you're 19, probably not horrible looking?
dump the 18yo town bike & score some 27-30+ year olds.


Fuck no! Leave the 27-30+ year olds for me!
Mine Mine I say!

[Sagacious]

you're 19, probably not horrible looking?
dump the 18yo town bike & score some 27-30+ year olds.
the good thing about....lets call them the 30+ demographic...is that they know who they are what they are about and what they want out of any given encounter. If they want a good time with limited or no strings they have no problem in saying so. if they want a long term relationship they aren't backward in laying those cards on the table either (why waste time if your mark is unable or unwilling to meet your requirements). Most of them have been around the bl;ock and know that just because you fuck them it doesn't mean true love or lifelong commitment and ever since Sex in the City went to air some of them even view sex as a viable form of exercise.

It is for this reason Asterisk that I commend older more experienced women to you....

...seek them out and together swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh!

[AsterisK]

thanks everyone for ur help and support :)

[Javaira]

I have to say, she sounds a little insecure to me. Pretty common in 18 year old girls even cute outgoing ones. I was one myself, an insecure 18 year old that is. I have to admit that I loved the idea that more than one guy found me attractive and although I had no cruel intentions, I would flirt with guys that I had absolutely no interest in, just to bolster my failing ego.

Be really careful, she won't mean to treat you like mat, but it is quite likely she is going to walk all over you and discard your emotions like last weeks leftover dinner. Then again she might get some maturity and learn to appreciate you, but that probably won't happen till she is older, much older.

[tikdoph]

no... wrong... disagree

there's a difference between a nice guy and one who constantly supplicates, constantly does everything the girl wants and constantly acts like a servant rather than another half of a relationship


nice guys dont finish last, wusses who act so clingy that they appear like they think theyre never going to be in another relationship if this one fails do.
So why is it that when given a choice between a "nice guy" and an asshole, girls will still choose the asshole?

The fact is that the wusses are more likely to get a girl than "nice guys" are because they are more easily manipulated by chicks who are fat, ugly control freaks (and their numbers are increasing all the time).

So basically, your chances of getting a girl follows the order below:

1. Asshole
2. Wuss
3. Nice Guy

The fact that John C. Sunol is married proves this.

[Manshoon]

Damn for once I agree with you tikdoph!

[lostreality]

look mate, just dont bother, its not worth the heart ache.

[AsterisK]

roflmao... maybe i should be more of an asshole then :P this chick is HOOOOTTTT... but yer she still "loves" her ex... but yer im good friends with her now so atleast i have that goin for me :)

[Chocoholic]

roflmao... maybe i should be more of an asshole then :P this chick is HOOOOTTTT... but yer she still "loves" her ex... but yer im good friends with her now so atleast i have that goin for me :)
Hey stupid,
Girls don’t date friends as they don’t want to ruin what they have!

[lostreality]

suppose you could tell her you want to fuck her up the arse then just slap her, and that after shes finished taking your load on her face she can do all your washing.

if nothing says get the house clean like bum-lovin a slut then nothing does. she will be stuck all over you like shit on a blanket if you talk to her like that.

[Al]

Hey stupid,
Girls don’t date friends as they don’t want to ruin what they have!
Yeah, sucks, but this friend of mine won't shag me coz we're friends. I was like, damn, you sure? Hehe... I'm a bad man.

I used to be the same about the emotional thing AsterisK, but after having my heart ripped out by a particular chick i find i'm not in the mood for the emotional connection. So now I just shag chicks and cbf trying to work on a relationship.

[Sanura]

Good luck in your future romantic endevours.. may they be better than the last one.

Hey, that should be a hallmark card! :)

Seriously, hope you feel better...

[The Avatar]

Dude,

This also happened to me when I was younger as I was the token nice guy. I still am to a certain extent. Chicks will NEVER go for a nice guy, there is something fundementally wrong with them there(I think its just cause they like to sit around and complain about how their man doesnt treat them right, or something!)
Anyway, I did eventually get to have a go with the girl I liked after around 7 years of friendship and after she broke it off with her fiancee(I was the reason she told me!), anyway, it ruined the friendship as I knew it would, and I never went through with it (The root that is: because I felt bad for her, and felt I was taking advantage).

Now I look back and regret it so much as the friendship was going to be fucked anyways with her fiancee thinking I was banging her tits off(the prick even smashed my car windows, huh, shows you what a real "man" he was, didnt even have the balls to say anything to my face), and I should have just thought "fuck it" and spent my time rooting her brains out.

So my advice: Sit her down, tell her you liked her but not so sure now, be honest tell her why you didnt want to talk to her as you got her message and it shitted you. Tell her if you want a root, then "Im here for you", if not then thats okay with me too, but this is the important bit:
Tell her not to message you again as to who she is rooting as its annoying. Be very firm here, and she will notice how you do have a backbone. Tell her you wouldnt mind a root(no strings) and she might have some fun out of it.
Then let her go off and think about it. Dont press her on the issue, in fact never bring it up again. Ball is in her court, but you have shown that you have a spine, will stand up for yourself and wont take any shit. That will likely get you the root. What happens after that is up to you.
Dont try to take her out to dinner or being romantic, as this girl obviously wants to have some fun and no go straight into a serious relationship. Keep it casual.

[Elf_Girl]

Hey stupid,
Girls don’t date friends as they don’t want to ruin what they have!
Before going out with my current boy, we where good friends. Enjoyed the same things, hung out etc. Now we've been goung out for 6 months, no problems.

Same with my ex, different situation though. Now we're still friends.. *shrug* I don't beleive dating friends ruins the friendship..But then again it may depend on the type of relationship or how it turns out.

[Kas]

(i only read first post)

fucking bitch. forget about her they are all the same.

1: You cant make a girl like you.
2: Befrend her, but dont be too nice.
3: MAKE YOUR INTENTIONS CLEAR

those rules work pretty well.

[The Cunt]

Be nice to ugly older women.

Because they might have hot daughters.

[Aardvark]

And remember, unconscious girls don't say no.

[scathing]

And, as any Windows administrator knows, anything not explicitly denied is allowed.

[scathing]

On that note, this is taken from SMH (http://smh.com.au/articles/2005/05/26/1116950819087.html?oneclick=true) (user & pass: zgeek)

Many a law student has been spellbound by the rape chapter in their criminal law textbooks, not least being the famous, and horrific, Morgan case from England. Here a husband brought home a colleague (Morgan), telling him that his wife liked to pretend to be raped.

Having bound and gagged his wife, the husband then invited Morgan to have intercourse with her. The accused did momentarily contemplate during all the thrashing about that his friend may have misled him and that the victim was not consenting. Apparently, he smartly dismissed that possibility as highly unlikely. Of course, he later told the court that if he had known the true situation he would not have had sex with his friend's wife.

What Morgan's case did was set the law on the mental requirements for reckless sexual assault. The House of Lords said that Morgan could only be guilty of rape if his belief as to the consent of the victim was reckless, in the sense that he was indifferent to whether she consented or not. In effect, the outcome was that no one could be guilty of rape if they mistakenly believed a woman was consenting, even though that mistaken belief might be unreasonable.

Discussing this opinion / article might best be discussed in a new thread, however.

[MyPetMonkey]

seriously though, she uses the phrase "root"? i would be thinking more of punching her in the cunt than slipping cock in to it. hahahah, that's still pretty ror, you failed it pretty hard (it is "rooting" that girl)

It does make you wonder though....... Was it such a dud root (as she said) that she picked up her phone and read a message mid-session?

C'mon take that as a bonus.... Sure she could have looked at the time, and made correlations etc etc.... but fuck it you weren't there so you can make assumptions and that would be funny.

I know i'm 2 months late, but just walk away. You don't want her, and if she's hurt then you'll feel better and she should become a better person. Next person you meet will make it better.

It really only hurt's because she's (she was) the one with the options and you're (you were) not. Make your options, and you'll be fine. And there will be others..... always so many others