Have you ever cheated on a partner.

[Snapple]

I have never, but wish I had with certain men because they did it to me.

[druckfugged]

How does that make you feel?

[Hairyman]

Chastity is my solitary remaining virtue.

[King_Crud]

I never have. I once had a one night stand with a girl who was up from Melbourne for the weekend. She told me afterwards that she had a boyfriend back in Melbourne. I felt really shitty and told her so.

[Enos]

That is not a virtue my friend

and no.

[Jimma]

I cheated on a maths test, but it was bad in bed anyway and it had let itself go.

[Twitch]

I haven't and I don't think I ever could

[Thyrd]

No

[Snowball]

My Ex Fiance Cheated on me, it is the lowest act any one could ever do to a partner.
Of course she didn't sleep with him until we were officially broken up(she waited all of a week) but buying sexy Under wear for him and wearing it when she was out with him until 3 am when she told me she was out with "Friends" from work. She ended up staying at his place because we had a fight. How Convenient.

If you are going to cheat you obviously don't want to be with your partner so have the decency of telling them

[skozombie]

No way. Why be with someone if you want to cheat on them. If you're willing to cheat on them then you shouldnt be with them.

[Cpt Jellybean]

If I was ever lucky enough to be with someone I cared about there is NO WAY I could ever cheat on them, because I know how amazingly devastated I'd be if it ever happened to me.

[GutterClown]

thread needs poll.

no.

[hazza]

No, cos it was my dog.



fixed

[Thyrd]

Uncool, Icemang. Very uncool.

[Snapple]

thread needs poll.

no.


Done :)

[catt]

I haven't but I almost did.

Things weren't particularly good between my partner & I at the time. I had a 'bottom feeder' circling and luckily realised that it would be a huge mistake to sleep with him and instead talked to my partner and sorted things out (aaaaah a happy ending :D)

[kré]

define "cheated" please

[druckfugged]

We all want to feel wanted but the bottom line is you have to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and like what you see in the morning. The whole "it was just a root" argument falls back on itself when you consider that you may have just done the worst thing you could possibly do to the one person in the entire universe who will put up with your shit forever for nothing more than "just a root."

[muppet]

Yes, i have, and i 'fessed up to it.

[SamBo]

I got accused of it once (by someone I barely know), when I'd done nothing, does that count?

[Lina]

Nope. Never have, never will. If I'm not happy in a relationship I will leave said relationship.

[imp]

I think that if you're going to cheat on someone then you shouldn't be with that person.
That said, yes I have cheated. It was a horrid situation for everyone involved and I wouldn't do it again.

[ms edeity]

My ex cheated but we were bitterly unhappy so I didn't hold a grudge. In fact his mistress called me a year later to "catch up" (yeah - bit too far).
Shit happens.

[RedMaN]

No

[FatherShark]

I cheated on my now wife when she was my girlfriend 6 years ago. It was the most stupid and selfish thing I have ever done, but I admitted my infidelity to her.

Consequently, she dumped my arse (which I deserved) and fucked off overseas for 2 years, seeing a variety of men along the way.

Although I regret what happened, it's a lesson in my past that I would always be able to draw on if tempted again, but I haven't been. Ever since I reconciled with my now-missus 3 1/2 years ago I have been completely faithful, and could never bring myself to hurt another human being that badly again.

[Megabyte]

No I never have, and I don't think I could ever bring myself to do that. I think it's a pretty callous & low act.
I've been cheated on several times and it sucks majorly. I should have dumped their sorry arse the moment I found out though, my mistake there.

[Tyrany]

My ex-fiance cheated on me. Well it was more like she never had any intention of being faithful from the begining as she never stopped seeing her ex.

She was an incredibly adept liar, so she covered things up well. Her problem was that she didn't have a good memory for detail, so I eventually caught her out.

[Elf_Girl]

Yes I have, and i've regretted it ever since..
Cutting a long story short, he physically hurt me (my ex) and 2 days before i broke up with him, i hooked up with my current boyfriend...
Its been hard not only the fact I did it, but what if my boy thinks i'd ever do that to him..I had this discussion with him before we went out. (however my ex n I only went out for 2 weeks, if that...) But cheating is cheating.

[jasebert]

yeah, and I got busted for it. I was just getting some love before my shower and BAM.... She walks in. Gee was my face red when she caught me tossing off....

[jmoore]

i never have and never will, although i will be honest and say the thought has crossed my mind but i would never hurt someone by doing something stupid like that

unlucky to hear you got caught but jasebert

[Thyrd]

I've been cheated on. I was suspicious for a while, but gave them the benefit of the doubt. Didn't find out the complete truth and how far it went until I was told first hand after our relationship had ended. Even though I'd suspected and everything was over anyway, the news still hit me like a truck. Not fun. But I always try to forgive and forget. I don't hold grudges.

[Wombatunder]

I haven't been unfaithful to any of my partners but have regularly been the other man!!! :D

I had plenty of oppertunity to cheat while my girlfriend was living in another state and had a woman throwing herself at me, but it never happened.

[STallingU]

I cheat all the time. But its only because cheating gives me so many extra weapons and gold. She can't figure out how I get so much stuff so fast when we play pc games.
But never have and never will cheat on a girl.
Everytime I have a gf and I go out. I get hit on all night non stop. Its easy to say I'm spoken for.

[Snowball]

I've been cheated on. I was suspicious for a while, but gave them the benefit of the doubt. Didn't find out the complete truth and how far it went until I was told first hand after our relationship had ended. Even though I'd suspected and everything was over anyway, the news still hit me like a truck. Not fun. But I always try to forgive and forget. I don't hold grudges.

I was suspicious too but believed her when she said they were just friends because without trust you can not have a relationship and in the end we didn't because she lied :)

[Mr Bigglesworth]

There is an important pre-requisite to this question - Having a partner.

Havent had one of those since 1998.

[macgyver]

yeah, and I got busted for it. I was just getting some love before my shower and BAM.... She walks in. Gee was my face red when she caught me tossing off....

well fuck - did you get to finish knocking the top off or what? dont leave a good story unfinished!

[Javaira]

I have, I guess we both have.

This isn't always a simple question. I have been with other men and been encouraged by my partner, I have been with other men and broken his heart.

It is important that both people know where the current boundaries of a relationship are. History is no excuse for breaking them.

[rusky85]

No - the temptaiton is always there, but a quick act of disgrace isn't worth a life-time of regret in my shoes.

[That Bloke]

I've been the one with whom a girl cheated on someone else, I put the brakes on atleast 3 different times when it was about to get sexual, I didn't even mean to(put the brakes on that is, I had no concern for the other guy), I've just long had an automatic recoil to affection.

[ThraX]

I've cheated, been cheated on and been the other man. Many times.
I envy you, who can honestly say you havn't and never will, as all I can say is I have and never will again.

This is my personal hell, it's warm... but not all it's cracked upto be.

[Aardvark]

Yes. Yes I have. Never felt a single twinge of guilt about it.

Funny, though, the only ones I've ever felt guilty about my time with were the ones I didn't cheat on

[LadyAstral]

nope, never cheated on a partner

[The Avatar]

I have never, but wish I had with certain men because they did it to me.

Me too. I have never. I had the opportunity too, and considering how it ended, I wish now that I had.

But honeslty, I don't think I have it in me to cheat on someone, as I have always conducted myself with honor (well in real life at least), and will always do so.

Its just part of behaiving like a man. Any guy who can justify cheating (be it sexual or otherwise) cannot call himself a man.

[Aardvark]

From the otherside of the coin, any man who needs to justify it is not a man

[Seeker]

My Ex Fiance Cheated on me, it is the lowest act any one could ever do to a partner.
Of course she didn't sleep with him until we were officially broken up(she waited all of a week) but buying sexy Under wear for him and wearing it when she was out with him until 3 am when she told me she was out with "Friends" from work. She ended up staying at his place because we had a fight. How Convenient.

If you are going to cheat you obviously don't want to be with your partner so have the decency of telling them

Dude....she was being fucked up the shitter everytime your back was turned, you really think she remained faithful until the break up?

Bullshit.

My 1st and 2nd attempts of a serious relationship both fucked other guys, the first whore got clamidia from her loving RAF cunt so I had to go for the tests, lucky for me its a sexually transmitted disease.

Second one fucked some country cunt while we lived on the Isle of White, you know I would not have minded if they both screwed good looking men with money, but they didn't, personally when they fuck an ugly dude it's a bigger insult.

[The Avatar]

From the otherside of the coin, any man who needs to justify it is not a man

Dude, if you cant keep it in your pants, and you know that if your partner would find out that she would be hurt, would you consider your actions to be honorable?

Fuck it, Im not judgemental, and if I sound like it then sorry, but I really try to live up to a certain code in life. It shits me when guys talk about cheating on their girlfriends and how cool they are for it. Real men don't need to show off or boast about their conquests. Thats what little boys do in the toilets. They compare who can piss the farthest.

[Aardvark]

This one goes beyond simple cheating

If you need to justify any willful betrayal of another human, who are you trying to justify it to? They're not going to buy a word of it and you knew that from before the start. Anyone who attempts to justify such an action is trying to delude themselves more than anybody. Make yourself think you're right, you can mitigate those feelings of guilt.

Right, wrong, take full respnsibility for your actions. Any act of blameshifting is another betrayal in itself

[The Avatar]

What?

Isn't that what I'm trying to say. Quit being on the same thought pattern. Its weird.